Vāṇi

Praśna No. 8

How to stand up to family

Arjuna asks

BHAGAVAD GĪTĀ · 2.4

“How can I aim arrows in battle against Bhīṣma and Droṇa, who are worthy of reverence?”

He even says

BHAGAVAD GĪTĀ · 2.5

“It is better even to live on a beggar's fare… than to slay these most venerable teachers.”

The whole Gītā is Kṛṣṇa's answer.

Across the field stand Arjuna’s grandfather and his teacher. He would rather beg than face them. Seven hundred verses follow, and all of them answer this one hard family question.

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The verses

Arjuna asks

BHAGAVAD GĪTĀ · 2.4

अर्जुन उवाच
कथं भीष्ममहं संख्ये द्रोणं च मधुसूदन।
इषुभिः प्रतियोत्स्यामि पूजार्हावरिसूदन।।

arjuna uvāca kathaṁ bhīṣmam ahaṁ sankhye droṇaṁ ca madhusūdana iṣubhiḥ pratiyotsyāmi pūjārhāvari-sūdana

Arjuna said, "O slayer of foes, how can I aim arrows in battle against Bhisma and Drona, who are worthy of reverence?"

Arjuna continues

BHAGAVAD GĪTĀ · 2.5

गुरूनहत्वा हि महानुभावान्
श्रेयो भोक्तुं भैक्ष्यमपीह लोके।
हत्वार्थकामांस्तु गुरूनिहैव
भुञ्जीय भोगान् रुधिरप्रदिग्धान्।।

gurūnahatvā hi mahānubhāvān śreyo bhoktuṁ bhaikṣyamapīha loke hatvārtha-kāmāṁstu gurūnihaiva bhuñjīya bhogān rudhira-pradigdhān

It is better even to live on a beggar's fare in this world than to slay these most venerable teachers. If I were to slay my teachers, though they may be degraded by desire for wealth, I would only be enjoying blood-stained pleasures here.

The count

Counted by Vāṇi on the 700-verse text at getvani.app/gita.

Going deeper

These verses come at the start of the Gītā's teaching, before Kṛṣṇa has taught anything. In 2.3 Kṛṣṇa tells Arjuna not to give in to weakness and to rise. 2.4 is Arjuna's reply, and it is about family: how can he aim arrows in battle at Bhīṣma and Droṇa, who deserve reverence? 2.5 goes further. He says it is better to live on a beggar's fare than to kill these teachers, because the pleasures he would enjoy afterwards would be stained with blood. 2.6 admits he does not even know which outcome is better for them, winning or losing. Arjuna is not weak in these lines. He is honest about the cost, and what he describes is the choice many people face when duty and family point in opposite directions. The rest of chapter 2 is the beginning of Kṛṣṇa's answer, and what the Gītā says about dharma gathers more of it.

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